Actress Niecy Nash is revealing the key to maintaining a healthy and happy marriage.
In an interview with Playboy Magazine, the 44-year-old "Soul Man" actress said performing oral sex is the key to making her marriage last. The question comes from Nash's book, "It's Hard to Fight Naked."
"What I say in the book is, 'A BJ a day keeps the divorce attorney away' and I say that because I feel like men are profoundly simplistic, which is the reason I wanted to call my book what I used as the title of chapter three, which is, 'Stomach Full, Penis Empty: A Woman's Guide to a Happy Marriage.'"
"Keeping him fed and drained, you have no problem. We are really more complicated than they are and I think that women are more generous with oral sex because we nurture by nature. We want to be pleasing by nature, that's in our DNA, so I think that a lot of the behavior we're looking for sexually, you might have to educate your partner. Sometimes, men just assume they're going to get it and you need to be like, 'Give me mine. Ladies first.'"
Nash and her husband married in 2011. The comedian also encourages other women to feel comfortable about their sexual needs and preferences, along with being creative with pleasing their lovers.
"What's so interesting is that [women are] more willing to have conversations about, 'Do you want to get married? Where do you see this relationship going?' than we are to ask, 'What kind of sex do you like? What are you into there?'" she told the mag.
"That's a conversation that a lot of people dive into but if you're going to be with someone for the rest of your life and they're failing to meet your sexual needs is like doing a slow dance with death," she added. "We need to make sure we can meet right there in the middle."
