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It is natural to feel overwhelmed when considering the future and living with dementia, as it might feel scary and uncertain.

However, putting plans in place following a diagnosis could be empowering and will provide comfort that your needs will be met as the disease progresses. 

As you may know, there are many factors you must consider, from your medical wishes to your housing options when you can no longer live alone. Learn how to plan for the future when living with dementia.

Review Housing Options for When You Can't Live Alone

Making early decisions regarding your housing options may ensure you feel less overwhelmed when you can no longer live alone. 

Different options are available to suit your preferences, from a home carer to senior living. However, it is crucial to consider the level of care you will receive and the quality of life you will enjoy as you go through the mild to advanced stages of dementia. 

For example, you could select a senior living community that provides Alzheimer's and dementia care to improve residents' health, happiness, and dignity at any stage of the disease. 

Also, you will receive 24-hour care from a licensed nurse and compassionate staff, providing your loved ones with the comfort that you will receive exceptional support around the clock.

Consider Advance Directives to Refuse Treatment

Many people living with dementia choose to make decisions regarding their future medical needs during the early stages of the disease. 

For example, they might sign a Do Not Resuscitate (DNR) order to confirm they do not want their life saved by CPR. 

However, you must organize a DNR with a healthcare practitioner for it to be legally binding, as only they have the legal power to write the order. Once a DNR is in place, a loved one cannot override it.

Choose a Power of Attorney

Consider the correct loved one to become your chosen power of attorney, as they will have a legal right to make medical, financial, and legal decisions when your cognitive function deteriorates or you're incapacitated. 

As your chosen proxy, they are legally required to make healthcare decisions for you and follow your wishes as much as they can. 

Discuss Your Wishes with Your Loved Ones

It is vital to sit down with your loved ones to express your wishes to ensure everyone is on the same page. Be clear about what you want and state if it is non-negotiable. 

By doing so, you will create realistic expectations for the future and potentially prevent arguments between loved ones about your care, finances, housing options, and more.

The conversation will likely feel difficult and may even cause upset for your nearest and dearest, but it could prevent a great deal of pain and tension for your family during the advanced stages of the disease. 

A small conversation with those closest to you could make the road ahead seem clearer for your loved ones and help them avoid guilt or heartache.