Things are so bad between exes Tom Cruise and Katie Holmes that the two are not even on speaking terms and the word "hate" has been thrown around a bunch of times.

That's right; they do not communicate at all, and everything regarding their daughter Suri - visitation and child-rearing - is done through a third party, according to TMZ.

The couple divorced three years ago and nothing has gotten better since. Sources close to both of the stars revealed that neither party is interested in making amends  . . . not even for Suri's sake.

Cruise, 52, has been in London shooting "Mission Impossible 5" and hasn't seen his daughter "in months," though he still wants to be actively involved in her life. Filming for the action movie is supposedly finished and Cruise will head home to L.A. where he will be reunited with Suri.

Holmes does not think Cruise is making enough of an effort to see their daughter at all. Though Cruise isn't in the picture often, he still voiced his concerns about Holmes' "other boyfriends," whom he feels can have a negative influence on Suri.

The 36-year-old actress is rumored to be dating Jamie Foxx, and an inside source revealed that the two "spend hours together," often at Foxx's home.

Holmes admitted that she is open to the idea of falling in love again and being in a committed relationship, but that she and Foxx are just "really good friends."

Uh-huh, sure.

A recent photo shows Foxx clasping Holmes' hand in a rather intimate way, and the actor even calls her "my girl."

"Jamie is someone she can trust and have fun with. She's getting everything from Jamie that she didn't get with Tom," a source told Us Weekly.