There may be more trouble in paradise than Tori Spelling and Dean McDermott are willing to let on.

There are conflicting reports of the status on the couple's relationship.  An insider told Star magazine McDermott has already left Spelling because the affair has caused the actress to become possessive since finding out about the affair.  McDermott allegedly had an affair with another women while in Toronto on a business trip.

"He's furious that Tori is trying to monitor his cell phone, demanding he have a curfew and treating him like a child," the source told Star. "Dean and Tori had a nuclear fight [about it], and Dean is staying at a buddy's house, drinking and being irresponsible like some sort of overgrown frat boy."

Since McDermott reportedly decided to move out, Spelling asked her good friend Mehran Farhat to stay with her to help her out with taking care of the kids.   Farhat allegedly keeps the kids busy while Spelling deals with her emotional issues relating to her marriage.  McDermott wasn't too pleased about Farhat moving in.

"Dean absolutely hates Mehran living there and doesn't want him acting as a father figure to his children," the source told Star. "Dean is doing everything he can to keep Tori from leaving him and used the kids as a bargaining tool to get her to agree to couples' therapy. He's guilt-tripped her by saying it would be detrimental for the kids if they divorce. She reluctantly agreed but has made it clear that going to therapy in no way means that she will forgive him."

However, Hollywood Life sources claim the couple is still living together and are trying everything possible to make their marriage work, including getting into couple's therapy.

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